From the very beginning of mankind, there was a struggle for
the domination of the tribe. Most of these tribes were based on Patriarchy,
but we can find Matriarchy as well.
In the ancient world, women were looked down upon,
as creatures busy with giving birth, raising children and housework.
As we all know, women were dominated by men for millenias,
not allowed to participate in religion, art, sciences and politics until the feminist movement appeared in the end of the 1800's. (Throughout history, aristocrat or upper class women received rich education: languages, instruments or painting/embroddery.)
The horrors
Today, in our cruel world there is still pedophilia, sex-slavery, work-slavery, harrasment, rape, murder and many more. I don't want to talk about these extremes, as it would take us to another direction, which is not in my focus right now and I have never made a research on those themes. I'm not a human rights activist, I'm a thinker.
During a (live) agreement, bringing up extremes is demagogy - but that's exactly what usually happens. Women use the weak and victim role for their benefit. We are in the era of "politically correct", where the minorities (are women a minority???) get attention and special care.
Western women
I want to talk about women's mentality in the Western world. Why?
1 - Because I'm a middle class white guy, and my interest is in middle class white girls.
2 - Because it's rotten.
Today, there are still many feminists in the world are fighting for rights and equality.
Now, let's make this clear. There is no equality in this world, by any means, not in society and not in relationships. It's an idea, which is unattainable. So feminists "fight" (not making efforts or work on, but fight!) against any discrimination, and one of their main goals
in many countries is clearing the difference between men's and women's salaries.
Now it's remarkable, that such a practical and very much materialistic goal is on the
very beginning on the list. Just a thought...
Status quo
Let's look at the status quo in reference to law.
- In the case of divorce, the woman gets half of all the
properties together, even if she came to the marriage without a cent.
https://www.debate.org/opinions/do-divorce-settlements-unfairly-favor-women
- Many times the woman accuses the man with violence, to dislodge her husband,
so she can stay in the house.
- If a woman accuses somebody with harrasment, he will taken immediately
to custody without any investigation. It depends on the country.
In Israel for example, it's to prevent domestic violence. A kind of "better be safe
than sorry" policy, which gives a helping hand to women who exploit this.
- Women can work at office jobs, without being efficient or understand what are they doing, these are the 40+ women in their premenopause, in slow mental and physical decline. These individuals are totally useless in the workforce and making even more damage than good. Could a man work like that? The answer is no.
The question is: who created this status quo and why?
Are women are really weak and helpless?
Turning point
For hundreds of years, the wish of women was to find a good man and marry him.
Of course, a "good party" was always desirable, aka finding a financially stable man.
In the "after WWII" period everybody was a citizen, most of those were workers.
Lower and middle class people had the good old theme: find a partner and build a family. In the meantime the "second wave of feminism" and the "black feminism",
continued to crack the status quo. The drug revolution also opened people's minds.
Times change and people change with them. Financial and cultural differences got bigger. And in the 80's we arriving at the turning point.
I'm quoting the first three verses of Madonna's song:
Material girl
"Some boys kiss me, some boys hug me
I think theyre o.k.
If they dont give me proper credit
I just walk away
They can beg and they can plead
But they cant see the light
cause the boy with the cold hard cash
Is always mister right, cause we are
Living in a material world
And I am a material girl
You know that we are living in a material world
And I am a material girl
A material girl"
Eddie Murphy mentions this in "Raw", explaining
the phenomenon, the psychology and manipulation behind,
and the conclusion: "If you have no money, you can get no pussy!"
After this point, women started to behave by these guidelines,
until we get to today's perverted and distorted world and see that
millions of men cannot mate because of this.
They don't know what's the problem or where it comes from,
only try to solve it in different ways: being addicted to porn, whores,
importing a bride from another country, converting to homosexuality
or give it up entirely.
Love and sex is essential for one's well-being. The lack of that can cause
frustration, depression or even worse: aggression and rape.
And I'm telling you that all this begun in that turning point,
of course with the help of media, films, video clips and music
(all which is controlled by the "Elite" by the way).
Women are materialistic by nature, and they thrive in this new era.
How is it to be a woman?
Men have no idea what it's like. To understand that, we must look at
3-4 old girls and their education and parents.
First of all, if the mother herself didn't get any education or got a bad one,
than she won't know how to educate. If she if is mentally not mature
or doesn't have real life values - that's a problem too.
And usually they don't. Giving confidence to a child is crucial,
but introducing her to illusions, lies, manipulation is programming
a human being in a wicked way, which is unrepairable later.
Don't forget, the child learns the most from action and behavior she sees.
So they start to tell their little girl that she is the most beautiful in the world,
that she is a princess who deserves only the best.
And the little one, will start to behave in accordance to this.
She will assume, that she is indeed very unique and everybody is happy
to be close to her, make a favor or help. This process being finished
in her teens, when she gets all the tips on how to "cope" with men,
from the mother and girlfriends. Of course the media offers enough
examples how a girl should live and behave today.
The result is incredible. Most beautiful women will ask for favors from
anybody, using the sexual instincts of males for their advantage.
Most women today are haughty, manipulative, exploitative
Bitchification
I made up this expression. Standards change. In the 70's or 80's,
getting laid on the first week would be too soon.
Today it's trendy and cool to be "bitchy" in any way:
making erotic selfies, exploit men or toy with them.
And now it becomes a compliment between girlfriends.
"How are you hoes?" and "Today I feel so bitchy" and so on.
Both genres “need” sex, or need each other. In today’s upside-down world
this ancient status quo has changed to something rather disgusting.
It looks like now, that only we need them, so it’s like unidirectional, not mutual.
Women want all the pleasures and they will go with the highest bidder.
They pay with sex in return. Well, it reminds me the description of a whore.
And this thinking is spread by the media. Most of today’s young women wants to
utilize their beauty and get a rich guy, which will give them two things:
they won’t have to work, and they can have all the high life they wish for.
This behaviour becomes a mainstream standard. Even for the modest ones,
money is a main factor: where he works/how much he earns - this is what
they want to know in the first date.
Gold digger types
It's totally acceptable today that young girls
going to bars and places where thay could find rich men.
They called the gold diggers.
Mostly eastern European women seeking (rich) men
to escape their country. This could be called
international gold digging.
Dating in today's world
The women's arrogance and over-confidence
is probably expressed in fine details in the
dating sites and apps. Let's look at the main types:
1. The square
She will be probably a nerd with an
equally nerdy face and one sentence:
"Serious relationship only."
2. The divorced, or singles with child
They will try to advertise/sell themselves with erotic
profile pictures. The problem that they can be full
of bitterness towards the "nation of men".
3. The plastic dolls
These are the creatures with barbie-like face
(sometimes too artficial, maybe after a few plastic
surgeries) and beautiful topmodell-like body.
They usually write: "I'm looking for a rich grand dad
or a sponsor."
4. The "normal" girls
These are the vast majority. Not beautiful and not ugly,
not clever but not dumb, they are simply very much gray
and uninteresting. These ones can write a loooong list of
requirements.
5. Little bitches
These are 18-24 years old metalist or punk girls,
mentally still around 13 yo, who started to fuck around.
Often they have drug/alcohol addiction or even HPV.
They will write something short, like:
"I'm not looking for anybody here, just looking for fun."
6. The "spiritual new age vegan" souls
You can expect a long list here too.
They usually write: "If you are not a vegan or smoker, then
don't write to me."
7. The macho women
This type has done banji jumping, sky diving, horse riding,
trekking, scuba diving, snowboarding, and whatever extreme
sports you can imagine. She looks for a partner at the same level.
Although I like health and sport, these ones freak me out.
8. The businesswoman
Usually in the business field or lawyer women, these
types have photos in classy dresses, drinking champagne.
Although they have a lots of money, they can't buy or find
love, some of them is actually very sad inside.
9. The "traveler bitch"
These usually write (on Tinder):
I'm here (in your country) for a week, looking for fun.
Also, they write "traveling" as their main occupation.
10. The old/ugly/fat nightmares
These individuals usually live in a big misbelief,
that they deserve clever and handsome guys,
despite that they themselves are usually the 4 in 1 package:
Old, ugly, fat and not soo bright.
11. The "just right" babes
Very rarely, you stumble upon a girl, who looks nice
and writes with a very humane tone.
She will never respond to your like or message.
Summary
Now you can see, it's called war of the sexes, because both sexes
seek domination on a planetary scale. As equality is too idealistic,
the goal of women is to replace the men and rule. It's already happening,
and I do not fear this change. Actually, I would be happy if women would
show that they are stepping up one evolutionary level to become real partners.
And I'm very happy to hear that there are more and more talented
girls who are inventing things or becoming scientists.
Unfortunately, the vast majority still seeks only pleasure,
and the status quo becoming ill and distorted, and that's my main problem.
Women today are playing a double game: on one hand they want
equal rights in every field of life (and in a modern society they have it),
on the other hand they want all the advantages of being a “lady”:
they require politeness, gentlemanness (it means you have to pay on dates,
restaurants and in general), being entertained and so on.
It seems the list of requirements is long, but what do they offer?
My final comment to this:
I looked up the definitions of these two words. Look what I've found.
Definition of love: A strong feeling of affection and sexual attraction for someone.
Definition of money: A current medium of exchange in the form of coins and banknotes; coins and banknotes collectively.
DO YOU SEE ANY CONNECTION OF THE TWO?
For my great pity women do.